One thing I have noticed since rejoining Okcupid is that they have the option to add private notes about the user. I realized the majority of them I have written say, "Gay" on it. I don't mean, "stupid gay", I mean "I really question his sexuality."
I was gifted a Match.com account.You get less crazy messages on Match since the fee weeds out most losers asking if you wear thongs or suggest that you need a tutor to fall in love with.
I have been getting messages from "wealthy" men (aka: most likely uses fake photos and has $50 to their name) talking about flying out for the first date and "spoiling" me.
He put me in his favorites and in his headline he makes a play on words connected to 50 Shades of Grey. I get a mix of confusion and fear like he's going to kill me while I look at his photos.
"I once flew a date in from NY just to have a beast show up that looked
like and old, obese, alcoholic, man w/ down syndrome version of her